I have little bumps that feel like watermelon seeds and up to the size of a corn kernel. On the outside lips of my vagina. One dr. said it was oil plugged glands and wanted to do a vulvectomy, I never went back to him. Another said it was undergrown hair. I'am getting more and more of them, they are not painful, but a little itch when its first coming up. I'am so embarrased to see a gynecologist, I feel like a freak.

Believe me, Ma'am, I have worked all my life in the medical field, and there is nothing, NOTHING AT ALL, embarrassing about your problem. we could tell you stories...........I think I would try conservative treatment before the vulvectomy as that seems terribly extreme, but your PCP should be your first visit here. I am not a doctor, but ingrown hair does sound reasonable. He/she can refer you to a GYN if necessary.
take it from me, that's nothing. Nothing to be embarrassed about. Please get to your PCP so you wont have to worry about this so much! I have similar "bumps" from time to time that are ingrown hairs, but that does not qualify me to answer your question. All i can tell you is that after you've worked in medicine for a while, your condition is nothing to be embarrassed about, and you wont have to be scared if you go see your PCP. I'll bet you 50 cents you need a Pap smear anyway.
I dont really feel human today but I will check the box that says I am. I really need more coffee to meet the criteria for human.
Good luck. Please dont worry about these, avoid the vulvectomy doctor (always, always start with conservative treatment first), and see your PCP. Or you can find a female GYN in your area if you would be more comfortable.